This is one occasion - possibly the only time, Black - when the family would be happy to provide you with a first-hand account of what occurred.

Kindly name the time and place and we will be more than happy to reunite you with your lost relations.

Otherwise, show a shred of respect for your departed by refraining to further sully them with your wild accusations, inaccurate supposition and feigned concern and interest in a family with whom you no longer have the right to associate.